Thursday, 24 November 2011 20:31
Last Updated on Wednesday, 28 March 2012 09:32
Thank you for some great questions again last night. I value the interaction that we enjoy uniquely at “Church @ Six”. Often the questions are unclear because they are texted in hurriedly so I have taken the liberty in some cases to change the wording to make it more clear. I trust I have preserved the essence of the question.
If you are reading these questions I strongly encourage you to interact in some fashion. We want to ensure that the interaction has some value beyond Sunday evening.
Thanks,
Pastor Ian
1 What are some of the first steps that a future parent should take to be a good godly leader and parent in the eyes of God?
A Christian parent is no different from a Christian non parent. We are called to be disciples of Christ who are growing in grace and in the knowledge of God. Whether we are a parent or not this is our duty. When we take parenthood seriously, as you are with this question, it sharpens our walk with Christ as we are increasingly aware of the example that we are setting for children in our home. Having said that, let’s be careful that we not look for perfection. The best leaders of children and otherwise are those who run hard after God and are able to admit when they fail.
2 Is not wanting to have kids bad? Because the Bible said go multiply and be fruitful... But if one refuses to have kids, are they going against the Bible or does it depends on personal choice?